Submission that is invisible is not really submission at all. As submission is cultivated in the home, it needs to be expressed. It cannot exist as a set of hidden resolves or good intentions. Respect must be verbalized, and the demeanor of submissive deference must be plain to everyone in the home.
Source: 21 Theses on Submission in Marriage, July 17, 2017, https://dougwils.com/books-and-culture/s7-engaging-the-culture/21-theses-submission-marriage.html