Women have a deep creational need to be loved and led, so that they might submit and follow, and men have a deep creational need to be respected and followed, and when these needs are thwarted or otherwise frustrated, the end result is deep unhappiness for both sexes.
Source: 21 Theses on Submission in Marriage, July 17, 2017, https://dougwils.com/books-and-culture/s7-engaging-the-culture/21-theses-submission-marriage.html